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What Should a Leadership Training Program for New Managers Include?

November 1, 2026 · 7 min read · Greg Aden

A leadership training program for new managers should cover five core skills: feedback, delegation, one to one meetings, decision making and leading former peers. It should run over 8 to 12 weeks with practice between sessions, pair group learning with individual coaching, and include follow-up that involves the new manager's own boss. A one-off workshop does not allow time to practice.

Most new managers are promoted because they were the best at a job they no longer do. The top salesperson now has to coach people who close fewer deals. The strongest engineer now spends half the week reviewing other people's work. Nothing in their old role taught them how to tell a former peer that a project is late, or how to hand off work they could do faster themselves.

Aden Leadership is an executive coaching practice led by Greg Aden, host of the Servant Leadership Podcast. Greg works with executives, managers and teams through one to one executive coaching, team and group coaching (including a three part virtual team cohort), keynote speaking and the Courageous Conversations webinar. The breakdown below explains what to look for in any leadership training program for people stepping into management for the first time.

Why do newly promoted managers struggle without leadership training?

The skills that earn a promotion are individual skills: speed, accuracy and expertise. Management requires a different set, and few new managers get any preparation for it. Greg explored this pattern on the Servant Leadership Podcast in Why High Performers Get Stuck and How Leaders Help Them Grow.

The required skills are also changing. A 2026 review of leadership skills notes that employers surveyed for the World Economic Forum's Future of Jobs Report 2025 expect 39% of workers' core skills to change by 2030. That review names adaptability, strategic thinking, communication and guiding people through change as central to business leadership in 2026.

What skills should leadership training for new managers cover?

First-time managers need foundational skills, not the organizational change strategy that senior directors need. A program that teaches both audiences the same content will miss both. These five areas should come first.

1. Giving feedback and holding difficult conversations

This is where most new managers stall. They avoid the conversation, soften it until the message is lost, or deliver it too bluntly. Good training has each manager pick one real conversation they have been putting off, script the opening two sentences, rehearse it, and then hold it before the next session. Aden Leadership's Courageous Conversations webinar is built around this skill, moving leaders from avoidance to confidence in 75 minutes.

2. Delegation

Ask the new manager to list every recurring task they still do personally. Then have them choose one task per week to hand off, with a clear description of the result they want and a set check-in date. Delegation without a check-in date usually turns into the manager taking the task back.

3. Running one to one meetings

A weekly or biweekly one to one with each direct report is the most reliable habit a new manager can build. Training should cover how to let the team member set most of the agenda, how to track commitments from meeting to meeting, and how to raise performance issues early instead of saving them for an annual review.

4. Leading former peers and building trust

Managing people who were teammates last month is awkward for both sides. Programs should address it directly: how to reset expectations in a first meeting, how to handle friendships, and how to make decisions that some former peers will dislike. Greg's podcast conversation Why Great Leaders Build Trust, Not Fear covers why trust, not authority, keeps a team following through.

5. Decision making, conflict and emotional intelligence

A paper on developing leadership training programs published in PubMed Central separates traits that are largely inherited from those that are learned. The learned list includes emotional intelligence, empathy, adaptability, conflict management, resilience and judgment. These can be trained, which means a program should include practice in them rather than treating them as personality.

What format and timeline work best for leadership development?

Effective leadership development for new managers runs 8 to 12 weeks or longer, split into separate sessions with real practice in between. That spacing supports retention far better than a single workshop. A workable outline looks like this:

  • Weeks 1 to 2: Set up one to one meetings with every direct report and agree on expectations.
  • Weeks 3 to 5: Feedback and difficult conversations. Each manager holds at least one real conversation they had been avoiding.
  • Weeks 6 to 8: Delegation and priorities. Each manager hands off two recurring tasks.
  • Weeks 9 to 12: Decisions, conflict and leading through change, ending with a review alongside the manager's own boss.

Group sessions work best when everyone in the room is at the same level. New managers speak more openly with peers facing the same problems. For organizations that want a group of managers working through this together, Aden Leadership offers a three part virtual team cohort as part of its team and group coaching.

What should follow-up look like after leadership training ends?

Most programs fail after the last session, not during it. Three practices keep new habits in place:

  • Involve the manager's boss. Their boss should know what was covered and ask about it in their own one to ones.
  • Check behavior at 30, 60 and 90 days. Are one to ones happening? Has a hard conversation taken place? Has work actually been delegated?
  • Add individual coaching. One to one executive coaching lets a manager prepare for a specific situation and review how it went. Greg offers 45 and 55 minute coaching sessions for leaders already in the work.

How can you tell a leadership training program will not stick?

  • It is a single day with no sessions or check-ins afterward.
  • First-time managers and senior leaders get identical content.
  • Participants practice on invented case studies instead of their own team situations.
  • The manager's boss is never told what was covered.
  • Success is measured only by a satisfaction survey at the end of the day.
  • There is no individual coaching available when a real problem comes up.

If a program shows three or more of these, expect most of what it teaches to be gone within a few months.

How can Aden Leadership help your new managers?

If you have newly promoted managers who are avoiding hard conversations, holding on to work they should delegate, or struggling to lead former peers, start with one conversation. Book 25 minutes with Greg Aden. As the booking page puts it: no plan, no pitch, no program walkthrough. Bring the conversation you have been putting off.

For a first step your managers can take this month, the next Courageous Conversations session runs Tuesday, November 10, from 11:00am to 12:15pm MST. You can also reach Greg directly at 469-879-8211 or Greg@AdenLeadership.com, or through the contact page to ask about a team cohort or keynote.

Frequently Asked Questions

How long should leadership training for new managers last?

Effective leadership training for new managers usually runs 8 to 12 weeks or longer, with sessions spaced apart so managers can try each skill with their team before the next one. That spacing supports retention far better than a single workshop. Follow-up coaching after the formal program helps the habits hold.

What is the most important skill in leadership training for first-time managers?

For most first-time managers, the skill leadership training should prioritize is giving direct feedback, including the uncomfortable conversations they have been avoiding. Delegation is a close second. Both come up in the first weeks of the role, and both are hard for people who were promoted for doing the work themselves rather than directing it.

Should leadership training include executive coaching?

Yes. Group leadership training teaches the framework, but executive coaching applies it to one manager's real team, boss and pressures. A coach can help a new manager prepare for a specific conversation and review how it went afterward. Aden Leadership offers one to one executive coaching with Greg Aden alongside team and group coaching.

How do you know if leadership training is working?

Leadership training is working when you can see changed behavior, not just good survey scores. Check whether the new manager holds regular one to one meetings, has delivered at least one difficult piece of feedback, and has handed off work they used to do themselves. Their own boss should confirm these changes at 30, 60 and 90 days.

Who provides leadership training and coaching for new managers at Aden Leadership?

At Aden Leadership, Greg Aden delivers the leadership training and coaching himself, through one to one executive coaching, team and group coaching, and a three part virtual team cohort. The first step is a 25 minute call booked online, or you can reach Greg directly at 469-879-8211 or Greg@AdenLeadership.com.